Popular psychology (or maybe I’m just thinking of Pinterest, which is often the same thing) seems to place a high value on breaking out of one’s comfort zone.
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But as I grow older, I’ve become an increasingly bigger fan of comfort zones.
Comfort zones help teach us who we are. Comfort zones help show us what our strengths are, what makes us happy, where we feel most confident, at peace, and…well…comfortable.
When did that become such a bad thing? When did we decide that the only way to succeed is to regard our comfort zone as a straight jacket instead of a sturdy foundation?
Do only fear and discomfort motivate? Do only change and upheaval bring reward?
Strangely enough, I’m still a fan of trial, risk, running, thinking big, and all that. If that is what you want, if that is where you are. If doing so fills you with excitement, and not with dread. If you are ready, and not just pushing towards a popular train of thought that says you need to be something other than who you are.
I’m learning to take a bit of my comfort zone with me everywhere I go. It gives me confidence and understanding to face new endeavors, and is more of a steady influence than something I’m trying to leave, shatter, break, or abandon.
I’m curious: how do you feel about comfort zones? Love ’em or leave ’em?